INSECURITY

Insecurity is a word that we all come to know only when we become least mature at least. We are never taught about what insecurity is since our childhood, and we come to know about it by ourselves later on. To be simple, insecurity is portrayed as the monsters that'd eat you up if you don't obey your parents in your childhood, and to be little complex, insecurity is portrayed as the ghosts that'd harm you (though you have no idea what they are),throughout your lifetime(at least till you realize those are like machine guns in a swimming pool).

Insecurity is not fear. We make mistakes when we fear something, but insecurity is good enough to make us do things in a composed way that'd make us feel safe. We don't express our fears(some people feel the need for it to be personal, while some people consider revealing it a shame),but we all express insecurity in one way or the other, be it anger, anxiety, grief, and almost by all means to make ourselves feel secure.

The lack of the habit of self accountability has crafted the need for the term insecurity. The moment one realizes that no one on earth except himself/herself is responsible for what they do, there is no role for insecurity.

Modern world demands lots of things, and to cope up with those rising standards, we proceed doing things in the way others do, and finally let go of what we like. Such actions then cause mood swings, we then get no clear idea on what we are supposed to do, and finally with increase in age and maturity we finally get to know that we've not lived OUR LIFE finally!

So all this happens, only because of the portrayal of insecurity in various forms in all situations of of our life. If children are taught about insecurity from the beginning, problems that people face due to insecurity would significantly decrease. Scaring a kid by saying "If you don't eat, the monster will get you" might be an easy job for the parent to make the kid eat, but that is where all insecurity issues begin with misconceptions. Start giving reasons for all the work you do, you get no roles for portrayals and misconceptions.

"Things are hard to build, easy to break", be anything, and the same applies for insecurity and misconceptions. Sitting quiet for a while and introspecting yourself, keeping away every information, rules and facts that has been stuffed within you, will give you enough maturity to realize, "Insecurity is just greedy human mind that wishes to satisfy everything", that is, EVERYTHING....